Susan’s* kink is having sex, lots of sex, with lots and lots of different men. She claims she has slept with 25,000 men in her lifetime, which is a few thousand people short of Wanderers Stadium at full capacity. The most men she has had sex with in one day, she says, is 104.
“I write about each experience in a book, the weird stuff that happens, the memorable stuff. I don’t share it with anyone else,” Susan says.
“You only come [to a sex club] if you have a strong relationship,” says Tony*, Susan’s partner. “I never come here to look at other women. I come here to be with my wife.”
Tony and Susan are old hands in the swinging scene: they have been at it for 20 years. “Back then swinging was much more hardcore,” says Tony. “There were no clubs – we would go to people’s houses or hire venues.”…